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Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Why blaming me?

Some people told me : If you plan too much or have high hope on your wedding ; your ceremony will be a disaster.

Some people tambah lagi : Buat lebih-lebih, Allah balas jadi disaster.

MasyaAllah.

But myself told me : If you work hard, you will get what you what. Berusaha is berjaya.


I diy-ed most of my wedding stuff. I cut and paste my flower inside the car. I belit my ribbons while in hospital. I fold my crane in bus. And thus, people thinks I am a person with a lot of planning since they see me slalu buat kerja-kerja kahwin.

I do this not because I want my weds to be grand2. Tak. Bukan.
I do this because I am very passionate to do what I am doing right now.

I love weddings! I am waiting for mine for all this times. And it is wrong for me to be very passionate?

I love belit ribbons.
I love googling ideas and trends.
I don't have any problem walking around Masjid Jamek for 5-8 hours every week

I have no car. I took bus and train.
I angkut my wedding stuff banyak2 naik bus/train. Alone. Berat.
I have no complain.
Kaki lenguh, Sakit belakang.
I have no complain.
I am busy. Very busy. I have no time for myself even.
I have no complain.
Sometimes, I  have shot of money. (I am buying a house. That's why)
I have no complain.

But I am complaining now,
Why am I being blame for giving an extra attention to my wedding?


This is my time of my life. Just let me do what I want. Boleh? Please.

And please jangan, nanti masa wedding, something goes wrong and you cakap "Tu laa, expect lebih2, kan Allah dah balas"
Mmg I tuang air sirap kat you.


"Kita hanya merancang, Allah yang tentukan. Dan apa yang baik hanya dari Allah. Ada hikmah apa yang diberi"

9 comments:

NADZIRAH said...

sist, jgn lyn ape diorg nak cakap...kite ade pki duit die ker..?? just ignore the kapochi ckp..just concentrate on ur wed preparations..huh, wed kire so suke hati kite laa...i pulak yg over mrh yek..hehehe..neway, gud luck sist....

yaya said...

itu la, makin ignore makin menjadi.
sampai at one certain point, u burst up and giving up.

btw,
thanks nadirah .. :)

Orkid said...

babe....mulut org kan? diorg x mampu segigih u ckp cm2. haih.
bukan u suruh pon diorg belit2 ribbon. u yg susah2 for your special day, n yes...baru keje and kawen..u wat DIY to save cost and simply u enjoy it.
i totally understand that.
so bia je diorg k. insyaAllah ur majlis akan turn out as u plan, n even better. i doakan :)

yaya said...

hu hu hu.. i am totally over them.

gilaaa malas nak layan. so basically, just ignore. I do what I want. hehehe.

thanks rahmah for supporting. rasa best gila! :)

nur diyana said...

suka entry ni... me too da penat di"kata" org... mmg patut ignore je org mcm tu kalo baik pon dikata, buruk pon dia nak kata...

cik senah said...

salamm..

chek suka cara yaya.. berusaha sendiri utk menjayakan majlis perkahwinan sendiri..

takpa lah yaya.. abaikan saja kata2 negatif tuee.. sekurang2nya yaya nak majlis yaya TERATUR..dan bukannya CINCAI.. sebab tue yaya merancang serba serbi utk majlis perkahwinan yaya sendiri..

jgn risau yaya.. dalam byk org yg mengutuk..pasti ada yg reti appreciate usaha keras yaya berhubung dgn majlis kawen yaya ini..

p.s : chek pun DIY jugakkk..rasa lebih puas dan jimat belanja (itu yg pentingg..) :) - selamat membuat persiapan perkahwinan ya!! senyum2 selalu... :)

lel said...

yes you right, kakak
kawen cuma sekali seumur hidup
lagi bermakna kalau buat sendiri kan
congrats on your wedding
nak pi boleh?
im from penang huhu :p

Fay.D said...

betul la.. kan..
kita nak terbaik dalam majils kita.
kalau dah nak disaster nak buat mcm mana. kite dah rancang dan berusaha.

www.cincincinta.blogspot.com

normalina said...

hey yaya..i had been ur silent reader for a long time..and u inspired me..jgn peduli kata2 orang..i suka sikap u..sangat positive..go..jgn peduli mereka..and klau u tak kisah i nk jadi kawan u..so selamat berkenalan.. :)